Listen Before the Silence Becomes Eternal
We love to say it.
“When I was your age, I had a house and a car.”
We forget to mention the parts that made the math work back then.
- A house cost a fraction of what it does now.
- Wages had a different relationship to rent.
- Jobs came with stability, not just “flexibility.”
- People built lives with hope, not just hustle.
Leo didn’t need a lecture about grit.
He needed a father who understood that “I’m tired” didn’t mean “I need sleep.”
It meant, “I’m running out of reasons to stay.”
If your child seems stuck… if they’re struggling to launch… if they’re drowning quietly while still showing up on the surface…
Please.
Put down your judgment.
Throw away the “back in my day” speech.
